Dear Verda, Butch, Kathy, Terry and Patsy,
You are my siblings and my closest friends. I grew up knowing that there was someone who would always have my back, support me through anything and keep me grounded by checking my ego every so often. I love you all for so many reason.
Verda, you're a full 20 years older than me. I don't even have memories of living in the same house as you because you were already off to nursing school by the time my memory starts. Still, we have had some times, haven't we? When we got older, all those crazy camping trips and fun day trips just hanging out and laughing at life. You've worked for the KAC for almost 30 years now and that, in a way, has inspired me in my work too. I like that we have that common bond of working with the disabled. It's good to have someone to vent to who understands.
Butch, you're the shyest person I know but also the funniest person too. I wish you could let others see that side of you more often. You make me laugh out loud! I know how difficult it's been throughout the years as you were bringing up your kids while your wife was away. You did a great job! They're all good people and that's because of the time spent with you. You should be proud. You gave 28 years of service to this country and still work hard every day to make ends meet. I hope that one day you can retire and enjoy those beautiful grand babies you have!
Kathy, I love the crazy way you constantly talk to yourself. Chattering away, narrating your every move. I love how devoted you are to your family. Even in the tough times, you stood by with a quiet strength that reminded me so much of Dad. I love how you shine when you talk about your Grand baby Sophie and how you almost always have new photos of her to share. I hope that when you retire you and Ron see some wonderful sights in that new recreational vehicle! I wish I could come with you!
Terry, you and I are closer than the rest, probably because I rent from you and see you all the time, but there's more to it than that. I know I can tell you anything and you will never judge me or shame me. You have supported me through some very tough times, financially and emotionally, and I will never forget that. I was scared when you told me you had cancer. I could only see the end. But you faced it with grace and a spirit of life that was indefatigable. I'll always be there for you. I promise.
Patsy, oh, how you hated me when I was born! I don't blame you! You were the baby for a full seven years and then, SURPRISE, I came along all cute and dimpled and irresistible. Then Mom made you take me everywhere which only added to your resentment but guess what? We grew up and we grew close. One thing I need to say is I don't think you will ever really know how much I and the others appreciate you taking such good care of mom. We couldn't do it. You stepped up and made it happen and I know it hasn't been easy. You work from morning to night, lifting, feeding, toileting, Mom can't thank you. I love you so much for doing it. I'm going to find some way to show you how much it means to me. I truly am. You're a remarkable woman. I know we don't always agree about a lot of things but you are one hell of a strong woman and I admire you for it.
I love you all so much. I love how close we are. I know I'm spoiled having you all right here in town and I can see you all weekly and spend time with you. I love that. And I know I have friends that envy us because of that! I hope you will all be around for a long, long time!
With deepest love,
Mary
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